Wedding Articles, Ideas and Inspiration

Whether you're way ahead of the game or starting to feel the time crunch, we're here to help. We like to inspire your creativity. In this way, we hope to ease your stress and make your wedding fun. After all, that's the way it should be, right? If you're looking for different ideas or searching for professional wedding services in the Chicagoland area, you've come to the right place.

Further below the articles you'll find song suggestions for the first dance, father-daughter, mother-son, and last dance.





Articles / Wedding-Related Information

  • Average Cost of a Wedding in the United States

    Average costs cited will vary from source to source, but according to The Wedding Report, today's average wedding costs over $25,631. On average, US couples spend $25,631 for their wedding. However, the majority of couples spend between $19,223 and $32,039. This does not include cost for a honeymoon. Understanding wedding cost now can help you with your wedding budget later...[more]
  • How to Interview and Questions to Ask a DJ

    By asking the questions below, you’ll know what to expect from your DJ and they’ll know what you expect from them. And by asking at least three DJs, you’ll be better informed to make the right choice. Let us explain some of the questions to you now…[more]
  • Questions to Ask a Photographer

    Will you personally be the photographer for our wedding? If the answer is no: When can we meet the photographer whose work I'm seeing so I can see if I feel comfortable with that person/ see if we are on the same wavelength? If you are not talking to the photographer, also ask: If the photographer we want no longer works for your studio when our wedding comes up, what will you do? ...[more]
  • Questions to Ask a Reception Location

    The following is a modification of the "Questions to Ask Caterers" worksheet as written by Frances King of Moosetta’s Creative Caterers and the readers of Bliss! Weddings. It has been modified to reflect the questions necessary to ask reception locations for a successful event...[more]
  • Questions to Ask a Videographer

    Will you personally be the videographer for our wedding? If the answer is no: When can we meet the videographer whose work I'm seeing so I can see if I feel comfortable with that person/ see if we are on the same wavelength? If you are not talking to the videographer, also ask: If the videographer we want no longer works for your studio when our wedding comes up, what will you do? ...[more]
  • Questions to Ask a Wedding Planner

    How long have you been a wedding coordinator? Did you start your business from scratch or did you buy a business already setup? Is this your full-time job or part-time job? ...[more]
  • What to Expect in a Vendor Contract

    Contracts are an important, necessary part of your relationship with your wedding vendors. What exactly should the contracts include? Here are some points about vendor contracts, and what you can and should expect...[more]
  • 25 Ways to Make Your Wedding a Unique and Truly Memorable Event

    If you've been to one wedding, you've seen it all. From the flowers and the candles to the dress and the music, the typical wedding can be as predictable and generic as your Uncle Leo's dance moves. For your wedding to stand out, you need to involve your guests in the sentiment and process of the day. It's not the cake or the great food that will be remembered, but all the little details that will make your wedding as unique and memorable for your guests as it will be for you. These 25 ideas on how to personalize your day will make it the event that will be talked about for years to come...[more]
  • First Time Home Buyer Guide

    Most people have a lot of questions when they are thinking about buying their first home. Do I have enough money for a down payment? Do I qualify for a mortgage? Can I find a home that I like at a price that I can afford? All of these questions, and probably more concern you. Buying a home is most likely the single most important financial decision of your life. I can help you each step of the way. One of the reasons people use a Realtor is for their knowledge and ability. As an experienced Realtor I have gone through this process many times. I know what to do and when to do it. I can help you avoid common mistakes and help you negotiate the best possible deal. Best of all, I have the answer to the most common asked question, "What does this cost you, as a buyer?" Nothing! ...[more]
  • Wedding Fitness Tip #1

    Here is a simple tip that has helped people lose up to 6 pounds in 4 weeks. Get your Meal Timing down first before anything! People alway think that eating well means avoiding junk food. It all starts with WHEN you eat, not WHAT you eat. If your timing isn't down first, then all bets are off. So see if you can follow the basic timing rules and if you do, I promise you that you will see the weight starting to come off...[more]
  • Jewelry and Diamond Guide: Buying Jewelry Online

    Why is it not only safe but better to buy jewelry online? Well first of all the prices are going to be better as the online stores have no overheads in terms of sales staff and shop space. They are open 24 hours a day, there's no hassle from any sales people and most stores have a learning center where you can educate yourself on all kinds of things about buying jewelry and diamonds online.

    Most online stores will be able to offer you a much wider selection of jewelry too, have you ever been to a store that can easily show and compare 8000 diamonds for you? Or even just 1000 items of jewelry. Or even met a sales person who would happily go through 100 items, listing the details of each one without giving you a frown every time you wanted to see something else? I know I haven't, buying online is as painless as it gets and any good store offers a 30 day return on the jewelry too.
  • How to Choose a Limousine Company

    A common mistake many couples make is to overlook the importance of planning ahead for limousine service and other wedding ground transportation. It is not uncommon for a limousine service to get a call two days before the wedding. Please keep in mind that weekends are the busiest periods for limousines so you should plan at least three to four months in advance to ensure availability...[more]
  • Shopping for Wedding Ceremony Musicians

    The music you choose for your wedding is a reflection of yourself. It will set the scene, create the atmosphere, and highlight the joy and solemnity of the day, and remain in your memories forever. Not only is the style of music you choose important, but also the instruments you choose and musicians you select! Finding the right fit of all three factors may seem like a daunting task...[more]
  • A Guide To Booking Professional Musicians

    For those clients who are facing the task of finding high quality professional musicians to perform at a private event for the first time, this guide provides some general information on how to select the right ensemble. There are many choices out there for music for weddings and events, and it is important to know the right questions to ask to ensure that the people you trust to provide the perfect atmosphere for your special day are of the highest possible standard of artistry and professionalism...[more]
  • Suggestions for Selecting Your Wedding Musicians

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  • Planning the Music for Your Wedding Ceremony

    It’s safe to say that out of all the events for which you will gather your friends and family to celebrate your marriage, the wedding ceremony itself will be the most meaningful and, hopefully, memorable. Music plays many vital roles in the ceremony, from providing flow and ambiance to highlighting the deeper emotional meaning. Many former brides and grooms remember the songs played at their weddings for the rest of their lives, and they can relive that romantic day when hearing those songs again...[more]
  • Do I Really Need a Wedding Website?

    Many engaged couples are asking themselves this question as a very popular trend snowballs through the wedding industry. Before I got engaged I certainly wouldn't have considered getting a personal website to post personal information and pictures about myself, so the idea seemed bizarre to me too. Then, about a month after my fiancée proposed, I visited a friend's wedding website and realized it was more of a necessity as a means to distribute information, than about vanity at all...[more]
  • Questions to Ask Florists

    Will you personally be the florist for our wedding? If the answer is no: When can we meet the florist whose work I'm
    seeing so I can see if I feel comfortable with that person/ see if we are on the same wavelength? If you are not talking to the florist, also ask: If the florist we want no longer works for your company when our wedding comes up, what will you do?...[more]
  • How Not To Negotiate With Your Wedding Vendors
    As you search for vendors that match your needs and budget, this article by Susan Southerland in the Huffington Post may help:

    "You have the ring and you've set the date, but now the rubber is meeting the road and you're running around doing tastings, viewing venues and looking at photography and video samples, figuring out who you want hire for your big day"...[more]
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    Planning a small wedding is as much of a hassle as a large guest list, with less wedding deals. Small numbers mean you have to be more frugal when planning your special day. Budget ideas that work for a small guest list, or planning a destination wedding getaway. Wedding Officiant Chicago Rev Pamela gives pro tips to brides and grooms planning their weddings. Inside budget saving ideas from pro to couple on wedding flowers, wedding venue, wedding music, wedding dresses, Wedding overnight, wedding photography, wedding video. Rev Pam in Chicago knows how to save you money. Detailed vendor discounts can be found on the PERKS page on her website. If your planning a wedding there are special friends of Rev Pam’s who will give the reader an immediate discounts on purchasing everything from wedding dresses and the chocolate table. ...[more]
  • How to Choose Which Wedding Traditions to Keep
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  • Planning The Perfect Honeymoon Destination
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  • How To Create The Perfect Wedding Invitation
    Yay! You’ve finally set a date for the big day. You have your venue and your menu and now it’s time to get down to business! Well, all aspects of planning a wedding require business as usual, but there are certain tasks that are more enjoyable than others and once you get those big decisions locked down the fun can begin and that starts with creating your wedding invitations!...[more]
  • How Much to Spend on Your Groomsmen Gifts
    Is the total cost for your wedding ballooning? Or have you managed to stick within your budget? If the former is your situation, don’t worry. Cool groomsmen gifts don’t have to be expensive. In fact, several are affordable and you’d be surprised that most grooms don’t spend too much on these tokens of thanks. If you’re one of the latter, then good for you! Not many achieve that feat, so let’s keep it that way....[more]

Music and Song Suggestions

As you know, music is an integral part of the wedding day. Take time to carefully plan the music you use. Your choices should always enhance the mood rather than take away from it. When in doubt, consult with the DJ / band / musician.

Choosing an appropriate song for the first dance, last dance, or for dances with the parents, leave some couples at a loss. Use our list of suggestions to help you narrow down your selections. Links provided go to iTunes.



  1. Bron-Yr-Aur - The Complete Led Zeppelin (Remastered)
  2. River - Watermark by Enya
  3. Soul Bossa Nova (Original Mix) - Talkin' Verve: Quincy Jones
  4. Start the Commotion - The Antidote by The Wiseguys
  5. Sunchyme - Sunmachine by Dario G
  6. "The Beat Goes On" by Gabor Szabo
  7. The Walk (Everything Mix) - Mixed Up by The Cure


First Dance

  1. A Perfect Day - Sol to Soul by Freddie Ravel
  2. After All by Cher & Peter Cetera
  3. All My Life by K-Ci & Jojo
  4. Amazed - The Greatest Hits by Lonestar
  5. Best of Me, The by David Foster w/ Olivia Newton-John
  6. Can You Feel The Love Tonight by Elton John
  7. Could I Have This Dance by Anne Murray
  8. Destiny by Jim Brickman w/ J. Hill & B. Porter
  9. Endless Love by Diana Ross & Lionel Richie
  10. For The First Time by Kenny Loggins or Rod Stewart
  11. Forever and Ever by Randy Travis
  12. From This Moment On (Pop On Tour Version) - Shania Twain: Greatest Hits by Shania Twain w/ Bryan White
  13. Give Me Forever (I Do) - Forever More - The Greatest Hits of John Tesh by John Tesh featuring James Ingram
  14. Here and Now by Luther Vandross
  15. I Cross My Heart - 20th Century Masters - The Millennium Collection: Best of George Strait by George Strait
  16. I Could Not Ask for More - Messenger by Edwin McCain
  17. I Do (Cherish You) by 98 Degrees or Mark Wills
  18. I Don't Want To Miss A Thing by Aerosmith
  19. I Finally Found Someone - Duets by Barbra Streisand & Bryan Adams
  20. I Knew I Loved You by Savage Garden
  21. I'll Always Be Right There by Bryan Adams
  22. If by Bread
  23. It Had To Be You by Harry Connick, Jr.
  24. It's Your Love by Tim McGraw & Faith Hill
  25. Just The Two of Us by Grover Washington, Jr. w/ Bill Withers
  26. Just The Way You Are by Billy Joel
  27. Just You and I by Eddie Rabbitt & Crystal Gayle
  28. Keeper of the Stars by Tracy Byrd
  29. Let's Stay Together by Al Green
  30. Longer by Dan Fogelberg
  31. Moonlight Serenade by Glenn Miller
  32. More Than Words by Extreme
  33. Music of My Heart by N'Sync & Gloria Estefan
  34. My Commitment - Open Road by Gary Barlow
  35. Now and Forever by Richard Marx
  36. On Bended Knee by Boyz II Men
  37. One In A Million You by Larry Graham
  38. Say It by Voices of Theory
  39. Stuck On You by Lionel Richie
  40. The Way You Look Tonight - Single - Maroon 5 by Maroon 5
  41. The Way You Look Tonight - Fifty Years: The Artistry of Tony Bennett
  42. To Make You Feel My Love by Garth Brooks
  43. Truly Madly Deeply by Savage Garden
  44. We've Only Just Begun by Carpenters
  45. When I Fall In Love by Celine Dion
  46. Your Love by Jim Brickman & Michelle Wright
  47. You're In My Heart by Rod Stewart
  48. You're Still The One by Shania Twain
  49. You've Got A Way by Shania Twain



Father-Daughter Dance

  1. Always, In All Ways - More Songs from Pooh Corner by Kenny Loggins
  2. Daughters - Heavier Things by John Mayer
  3. Daddy - Daddy - Single by Beyonce
  4. My Little Girl - Best Sellers / Best Price - EP by Tim McGraw
  5. A Song For My Daughter - A Song For My Daughter by Ray Allaire
  6. Because You Loved Me - Falling Into You by Celine Dion
  7. Butterfly Kisses - Sweet Dreams and Starry Nights, Vol. 1 by Bob Carlisle
  8. Daddy's Hands - Holly Dunn
  9. Daddy's Little Girl - The Anthology 1931-1968 by Al Martino or Mills Brothers
  10. Have I Told You Lately...? by Van Morrison or Rod Stewart
  11. Isn't She Lovely - The Complete Stevie Wonder by Stevie Wonder
  12. Isn't She Lovely - Duet by Biréli Lagrène & Sylvain Luc
  13. Hero by Mariah Carey
  14. Music of My Heart by Gloria Estefan & NSYNC
  15. My Girl by Temptations
  16. Sunrise, Sunset (traditional)
  17. The Way You Look Tonight by Frank Sinatra or Fred Astaire or Tony Bennet or Steve Tyrell
  18. The Way You Look Tonight - Single - Maroon 5 by Maroon 5
  19. The Way You Look Tonight - Fifty Years: The Artistry of Tony Bennett
  20. Through the Years - Number Ones by Kenny Rogers
  21. Wind Beneath My Wings - Experience the Divine - Greatest Hits (Deluxe Version) by Bette Midler


Mother-Son Dance

  1. I Hope You Dance - Lee Ann Womack: Greatest Hits
  2. A Song for Mama - Legacy - The Greatest Hits Collection (Deluxe Edition) by Boyz II Men
  3. A Song For My Son - A Song For My Son by Mikki Viereck
  4. Because You Loved Me by Celine Dion
  5. Boy Of Mine - Specially For You, Mother by Ann Breen
  6. I Wish You Love by Natalie Cole
  7. Sunrise, Sunset (traditional)
  8. Through The Years by Kenny Rogers
  9. Times Of Your Life by Paul Anka
  10. Unforgettable by Natalie & Nat King Cole
  11. What A Wonderful World by Louis Armstrong
  12. Wind Beneath My Wings by Bette Midler
  13. You're the Inspiration - The Very Best of Chicago - Only the Beginning by Chicago


Last Dance

  1. Last Dance by Donna Summer
  2. Closing Time by Semisonic
  3. Come Away With Me by Norah Jones
  4. I Got You Babe by Sonny & Cher
  5. Good Riddance (Time Of Your Life) by Green Day
  6. Wonderful Tonight by Eric Clapton
  7. What A Wonderful World by Kenny G & Louie Armstrong
  8. Tonight I Celebrate My Love by Peabo Bryson and Roberts Flack